Our Story
Two friends, one honest conversation, and a community we built from scratch.
She Steps In started because we needed it ourselves — and we figured other women probably did too.
From the Middle of the Mess
We're Kathleen and Adrienne, longtime friends who have known each other since high school. Like so many women, we spent years building our lives around family, marriage, careers, friendships and all the responsibilities that come with them. Yet we arrived at this chapter from very different places. Kathleen was navigating grown children, unexpected career changes and a life that suddenly looked different, while Adrienne's life was still very full—a long marriage, children building lives of their own, lifelong friendships and a career she had spent decades building—but she was beginning to wonder what else she might want to do, learn or become. During one honest conversation, we realized that although our circumstances were different, we were both asking the same question: "What's next for me?" And when one of us said it out loud, the other answered, "Me too."
Join usWhat we believe
A few things that matter to us
Boldly
We say the things out loud that most people keep quiet. No pretending it's easy. No toxic positivity. Just honest conversation about what's actually hard.
Purposefully
We're not here to fill a calendar. Every gathering, every conversation, every event has a reason — to help you figure out what comes next and feel less alone doing it.
Unapologetically
You don't have to shrink yourself here. You don't have to have it figured out. You don't have to be anyone other than exactly who you are right now.
Together
We genuinely believe women are better when they're in community with each other. That's not a tagline — it's the whole point.
Ready to step in?
Ready to step in?
Whether you want to join our community or have us come speak to your group, we'd love to hear from you.